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    为什么找不到幸福

    有时候,我们会从新闻里看到一些人。说他们对这个社会彻底丧失信心,毫无希望。多数人看了也许是很难理解的。

    昨天,我突然能体味到这种丧失信心的感觉。觉得可怕——怕自己也变得对活在这个世界上毫无希望了。

    这世界到底发生了什么事情使得我们都迷茫起来了呢?

    目的性太强!是的——那种迫切的心,迫切想搞定一切!得到一切的心!为了达成这样的市场需求。全世界,全社会行动起来,实现人类的“速成”愿望!而与此同时,人们也在步入迷茫的深渊……迫切需要,却又不以为然。

     

    用的东西可以操作简单、傻瓜化这样我们就不需要研究了。于是我们的脑子里没有了探索。

    感情可以简单和公式化,他们变成了随手可得的图标和动画传情。于是我们渐渐遗忘了那些耐人寻味的句子,我们失去了真挚。

    经典的东西不再百年一遇,它们等不及灵感的涌现和生活的提炼。一切是可以编造和牵强的,它们可以流水生产,它们可以批量制造。我们也越来越少感受到心灵震撼了。

    连我玩的游戏,都有了外挂(电脑自动帮你升级),那样也许几天后的早晨,等我睡醒,等我打开电脑。游戏里面的小人人已是万人之王!可是说实在的,我并不再在乎那样的游戏结果。

    幸福本是在一个过程后,你终于得到你想要的结果时的体会。可现在,头脑里没有了探索;没有了真挚;没有了感受震撼。有的只是泡沫般的自信。除此之外还有什么呢?

     

    这就是为什么我渐渐感到了不安,我不再能像从前那样专心于一件事,做着一件事的同时,我总是想着其他事情。好像有很多事都想做,想做出结果来。但最终,没有一件能做好。而我也渐渐失去了越来越多的兴趣和信心。就是这样一种恶性循环。我必须老实的面对它。

     

    所以,“务实”和“真情”成了我现在的座右铭。放慢一切追逐目的的脚步,回复自然,我很想重新体味幸福的滋味。

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    mimihong8211 wrote:
    耐人寻味,我转载了,谢谢姐姐!
    4 Jan.
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    走的时候要微笑 wrote:
    ----于是我们的脑子里没有了探索----
    似曾相识的场景
    21 Nov.
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    nawuxika之之 wrote:
    归根结底,你安宁了,你就一定感到满足吧?幸福由此而生。没个人有不同的定义满足的方式。
    16 Sept.
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    Lee_Lucy wrote:
    得不到幸福,因为很多人并没有真正去追寻幸福。人们追逐名利,但名利带来幸福的机会又有多少?

    内心的一份安宁和爱,在我看来才是幸福的所在。
    16 Sept.
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    北鱼 wrote:
    “感情可以简单和公式化,他们变成了随手可得的图标和动画传情。”
    感情是一种意识,而意识的本质是时间性。当感情的过程,也就是时间性被抽掉之后,感情的本质荡然无存,我们得到的只能是被榨干了汁水的甘蔗末。
    19 Aug.
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    nawuxika之之 wrote:
    Thank you!
    6 Aug.
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    Blue_Dolphin_BUAA wrote:
    I like this article, hope you can find what is best for you. Sometime, we have to learn to slow down. support !
    4 Aug.
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    lemon宁 wrote:
    这是你的照片?? PLMM诶 顶一下咯
    31 July
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    nawuxika之之 wrote:
    谢谢~我给你做了连接。你的网站做的也很不错啊!
    31 July
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    小鱼 wrote:
    路过,支持一下~~
    31 July

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